Did Compassion Leave New York?

Or was it ever even here? There are a lot of people suffering in the streets of New York. Not only here, but people all over the world have some sort of pain that they can't hide. Yet, tonight I was unfortunate to witness some cruel souls who didn't mind making a situation more terrible.

A homeless man was sitting on the 4 train heading towards New Lots Avenue. He had a little bit of a smell to him, so I moved further down the car. His possessions sat comfortably against the train door. A table and some other things were tied down to a cart where it blocked the door.

Some people walked on the train and covered their noses after they sat down. One woman sitting down was bold enough to spray her body spray near the homeless man. The man didn't move. My headphones were in my ears, so I didn't really hear anything. A heavy set man and a couple with a baby appeared to be laughing right next to him. They were looking straight at him as they enjoyed a joke.

The man continued to look straight. He looked like a black Santa Claus with his beard. He had a kind face, but never once changed his expression.

As the people continued to laugh, a man casually waltzed up to the homeless person's possessions as the train was approaching Utica Avenue. He grabbed the cart like it was his and pulled it out of the train. The people got off laughing. I thought I heard one person say "He's homeless. He's not going to say anything."

I stared back at the man as I got off at the same stop. He stared in the same direction where his belongings once stood.

I write about this because I couldn't believe what I had seen tonight. And I had a great evening experiencing some beautiful fireworks, but witnessing this almost ruined it. I couldn't believe my eyes. How could people be so cruel to this man? He didn't do a thing to them. It's hard enough being homeless and it's almost as if they just rubbed it in his face. It's like they decided to toss out his possessions, possibly the only things he owned, just because he smelled.

Every time I see a homeless person, I imagine how difficult it must be to be in their position. The economy has only increased homelessness. Mothers sit in train terminals with their kids and a simple sign asking for food. Desperate kids dance, sing, do whatever they can to get extra cash in their pocket. Or sometimes, even a handicapped individual begs for money at the bus stop to get through the night.

A lot of the time, I'll admit it I just ignore them. But it still doesn't stop me from thinking about the struggles their going through. In that moment, I felt like I was a part of the problem for not helping the man. Honestly, I wished I had said something. His life is hard enough without some insensitive jerks making it worse. The man could have had dementia, lost his family from Katrina, or lost his home to a fire. Only God knows his path and only he can judge him. Who are we to treat him like that? No one on that train stood up for him. All anyone could do was act like their sh** don't stink too and cover their nose. Where did compassion for the helpless man go?

There's always an issue of injustice whether it's about bullying in schools, bullying of homosexuals, racism towards African Americans, etc. Yet, I never knew bullying of the homeless could ever be an issue. It just enraged me so much to witness this heartless behavior. But it hurt me greatly that I nor anyone didn't stand up for him. People are so quick to ridicule the homeless and put them in their place. But someone's got to be there to help them. If we're beating them down, how could they ever at least feel better about the world they live in and make a way to a better life?

Happy July 4 by the way....

Knight and Desire

Some inspiration caught me the other day while traveling....

A land of confused and hurt emotions lurk in the heart

Desperation for trust stands at the tip

of someone called Desire

She cries, moans, and aches for a lover

A lover who once understood

A lover who once cared

His name represented

protection and inspiration

His arms could shield the world from all harm

as he was Knight of chivalry

His smile lit up the sky with it's comforting sparkle

His essence was her comfort and his comfort was her everything

Her smile was his light

She was his sun brightening his world

in difficult times

Her voice soothed his mind and kept him at peace

She was his sun and he was her stars

Desire and Knight became one

A powerful love that could conquer all

Yet, the jealous moon seized it's

opportunity to end their intertwining world of ecstasy

An important step for them became an integral ingredient

in a recipe for disaster

Unexplained events looked bad on Desire

as she clung on to her comfort

She was lost in his mistrust and was drowning

in his logic

Knight struggled to believe in his Desire

but the moon influenced him to believe only in logic

His love stayed strong for her but it became harder to keep his faith

His Desire was losing in a war against logic

Desperation lurked in the heart of someone called Desire

Helpless, lost and confused

Hopeless of how to win this war with only her love

against the forces of logic without her Knight

To Be Liked....Why Bother

Ever felt like you wanted to be loved by everyone? People or after school specials let you think that all you have to do is be yourself. Be true to yourself they say. People will like you just the way you are. But being yourself won't guarantee you'll be liked by everyone.

I'm sure everyone tries to show the best of who they are whenever they meet someone. They act open and friendly or shy and quiet just based on how they respond in social situations. There's so much to a person that we'll never know with each person we meet except for the ones closest to us. We'll never really know why a certain will act a certain way when we meet someone. Everyone is different. Yet, so many of us ignore what could be on the inside and just create our own perceptions on what we think is on the out.

I could like someone because they seem so nice and open with me. But a few days later, this same person brushes off my hello and keeps it moving. I'm sitting there wondering what did I do? Did they see me? Or did they just decide to not like me based on what they don't know about me?

People do this to each other all the time and I just don't understand it. It starts off in junior high school/high school and the games continue throughout adulthood. There could be someone everyone finds strange, but they never really take the time to know that person because of what one person said. And then everyone starts to follow. Two people are real cool with each other one day and don't even talk to each other the next because of some miscommunication that could have been mended. A girl smiles and laughs with a companion she secretly or not so secretly hates based on whatever.

It happens all the time. Misread signals, nervousness, akwardness, weird behavior or anger due to just something going on in a person's life. You're sitting there just trying to be the best you can be with someone, but something about you just doesn't cut it. There's so many misinterpretations or just plain dislike that can cause a person not to like someone.

If you're trying to be liked by everyone, it's pointless. You could be the most likeable person in the world, but there will always be someone who doesn't like you. The point of my random rant is to just follow the advice of those after school specials: Be yourself. Regardless of how honest you are about yourself, a wrong or right perception about you can create a negative attitude.

Random thoughts I'm having tonight. There could be some fallacy to my rant, but my opinion is my opinon. I just hate it when people will take a person's character and twist it into something negative without really knowing the person. I'm just curious as to why so many of us are so socially defensive. There's so many great personalities out there who you'll never get to know because of some misjudged perception. Only God can judge in my opinion. But hey, it helps against the people out there who you really should stay away from.

We are who we choose to be and if someone don't like you for whatever reason, forget them. It just frustrates me why people choose to not like someone; it usually comes from some random fault that everyone has. Just like it takes time to love someone, shouldn't it take time to hate? But I guess if your gut is telling you something, follow it to some extent.

Stay true to yourself and never take for granted the wonderful people who like who you for you. To be liked should all count on the people who take the time to get to know you, not the ones who first find fault.